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I don’t know when I became so afraid of being with someone. Suddenly, I’ve become uncertain and indecisive. The thought of being wholly responsible for someone else’s emotional wellbeing is suddenly a burden that I do not want to bear responsibility for.


My fear of settling for someone and making the wrong choice disables me from making a leap of faith. I can no longer believe that everything will be ok.



Don’t Settle For What Doesn’t Make You Happy

Thought Catalog

Why do we do it? We meet someone, we are semi-interested, we exchange info. We go out a couple times. We’re still very “meh” about the whole thing. Yeah, he’s alright, we think. And he does everything right. He calls and texts (but not too much), he does sweet things to let you know he’s into you, he makes and keeps future dates, he opens up. So you let down your guard, you open up, too. And you admit to yourself that you like him. Maybe this time is different?

And then it happens. His calls and texts get shorter and more sporadic. You feel like you’re the one always initiating. And thus begins The Doubt Game. You question everything. Is he not texting as much because he’s more comfortable with me and doesn’t feel the need to, or has he lost interest? Should I call him, or should I…

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